I chose my career over my daughter. She was 3 when I signed the custody papers. I was 27. A first-year associate at a law firm in Charlotte. $78,000 a year. The hours were 70 a week. Her father left when she was 8 months old. I couldn’t do both. I placed her in foster care. Signed the papers at a desk in a courthouse on a Tuesday in March. She didn’t cry. I did. That was 2004. I made partner in 2011. Corner office. $240,000 a year. I sent birthday cards.
She said, You had a law degree, a corner office, and $240,000 a year. And you couldn’t show up once. Then she slid the business card across the table. The laminate …
I chose my career over my daughter. She was 3 when I signed the custody papers. I was 27. A first-year associate at a law firm in Charlotte. $78,000 a year. The hours were 70 a week. Her father left when she was 8 months old. I couldn’t do both. I placed her in foster care. Signed the papers at a desk in a courthouse on a Tuesday in March. She didn’t cry. I did. That was 2004. I made partner in 2011. Corner office. $240,000 a year. I sent birthday cards. Read More