{"id":13396,"date":"2026-07-19T03:20:40","date_gmt":"2026-07-19T03:20:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/?p=13396"},"modified":"2026-07-19T03:21:13","modified_gmt":"2026-07-19T03:21:13","slug":"my-mom-was-pregnant-with-her-seventh-child-and-the-moment-i-said-i-couldnt-keep-raising-her-kids-anymore-she-reported-me-like-i-was-a-runaway-and-had-the-police-come-after-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/?p=13396","title":{"rendered":"My mom was pregnant with her seventh child\u2026 and the moment I said I couldn\u2019t keep raising her kids anymore, she reported me like I was a runaway and had the police come after me\u2026."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13399\" src=\"https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/My-mom-was-pregnant-with-her-seventh-child\u2026-and-the-moment-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/My-mom-was-pregnant-with-her-seventh-child\u2026-and-the-moment-1-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/My-mom-was-pregnant-with-her-seventh-child\u2026-and-the-moment-1-1-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/My-mom-was-pregnant-with-her-seventh-child\u2026-and-the-moment-1-1-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/reallifedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/My-mom-was-pregnant-with-her-seventh-child\u2026-and-the-moment-1-1-768x960.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>When the pounding started, I knew my mother would never let me leave without turning it into a war.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>These were not the uncertain taps of a neighbor delivering mail to the wrong address. Someone was striking the thick front door of Aunt Rebecca\u2019s house in Des Moines with sharp, deliberate force.<\/p>\n<p>The entire living room fell silent.<\/p>\n<p>Even the grandfather clock in the corner seemed to stop.<\/p>\n<p>I sat curled up on my aunt\u2019s patterned sofa, clutching my worn canvas backpack against my chest. My fingers were wrapped around it so tightly that my knuckles had turned white.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Everything I owned was inside.<\/p>\n<p>Three sets of clothes.<\/p>\n<p>A toothbrush.<\/p>\n<p>And the desperate hope that sixteen years of living as my mother\u2019s unpaid servant had finally ended.<\/p>\n<p>Aunt Rebecca slowly placed her coffee cup on the table. The familiar smell of dark roast and lavender suddenly seemed strange beside the fear spreading through the room.<\/p>\n<p>She looked at me with concern, but there was steel in her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cStay here, Madison,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n<p>She walked toward the entrance.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to remain on the sofa, but my body refused. I rose on trembling legs, my heartbeat pounding so hard that the room blurred around the edges.<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca opened the door.<\/p>\n<p>Two police officers stood on the porch, one man and one woman. Their dark uniforms looked severe against the pale morning sky.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDoes Madison Parker live at this address?\u201d the male officer asked, peering beyond my aunt into the hallway.<\/p>\n<p>Hearing my name spoken in that official tone felt like an accusation.<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca straightened.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe is staying here. Madison is my niece.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The female officer\u2019s name tag read Officer Bennett. She glanced at me with an expression that was professional but not entirely cold.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour mother reported you missing this morning,\u201d she explained. \u201cShe said you left home without permission. Since you are sixteen, we need to make sure you are safe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A missing-person report.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The absurdity of it made something twist painfully inside me.<\/p>\n<p>My mother had spent years leaving me alone to raise six children while she slept, disappeared, or complained about how difficult motherhood was.<\/p>\n<p>I was the one warming bottles at three in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>I changed diapers, cooked meals, cleaned the house, and calmed screaming toddlers while trying to complete homework on the kitchen floor.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\"><\/div>\n<p>My classmates were going to football games, learning to drive, and planning for college.<\/p>\n<p>I was buying diapers after midnight and failing geometry because I could not stay awake in class.<\/p>\n<p>My safety had never mattered to my mother.<\/p>\n<p>Not until the person doing all her work walked away.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t run away,\u201d I said, although my voice cracked. \u201cI walked here. I called my aunt first. I left because I had to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The officers exchanged a quick look.<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca opened the door wider.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe is safe here,\u201d she said. \u201cBut she is exhausted. Her mother has forced her to raise those children for years. She has been treated like free labor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The male officer frowned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe still need to speak directly with Madison and assess the situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I stepped forward.<\/p>\n<p>Anger was beginning to rise beneath the fear. It came from years of carrying crying babies across stained carpets while my mother, Carla, slept behind her locked bedroom door.<\/p>\n<p>It came from every failed exam, every forgotten birthday, and every night I was told that being the oldest meant I had no right to complain.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy mom is pregnant again,\u201d I said. \u201cThis will be her seventh baby. She expects me to raise this one too. I haven\u2019t slept through the night in years. If you force me to go back, I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll survive it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett\u2019s expression softened.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>She appeared ready to respond when the roar of a damaged muffler tore through the quiet street.<\/p>\n<p>A dented gray sedan stopped partly on the curb outside.<\/p>\n<p>My blood turned cold.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t have to look.<\/p>\n<p>The police were not the real nightmare.<\/p>\n<p>The real nightmare had just arrived.<\/p>\n<p>The car door slammed.<\/p>\n<p>Carla climbed out, one hand resting over her seven-month pregnancy and the other gripping her old purse.<\/p>\n<p>She was not alone.<\/p>\n<p>She dragged my six-year-old brother, Noah, from the back seat.<\/p>\n<p>He wore pajamas far too small for him. His face was dirty and wet with tears.<\/p>\n<p>My mother\u2019s expression changed before she reached the porch.<\/p>\n<p>It became the face she wore at church and parent-teacher meetings: the exhausted, selfless mother who had sacrificed everything for her children.<\/p>\n<p>She rushed through the doorway.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMadison!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her cry was perfectly measured to sound devastated.<\/p>\n<p>Before I could move, she threw her arms around me and pulled Noah with her. There was no love in the embrace. Only cheap perfume, stale laundry, and the pressure of a jailer reclaiming a prisoner.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou terrified us!\u201d she sobbed loudly. \u201cYour brothers and sisters have been crying all morning!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While holding me, she placed her hand on Noah\u2019s shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>I saw her fingers tighten through his thin shirt.<\/p>\n<p>Noah screamed.<\/p>\n<p>Then his scream became desperate sobbing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPlease come home, Madison!\u201d he cried, grabbing my shirt. \u201cMom said we can\u2019t eat if you don\u2019t come back! Please! I\u2019m hungry!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His words poisoned the room.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett\u2019s face hardened.<\/p>\n<p>To anyone who did not understand what my mother was doing, it looked as though I had abandoned helpless children.<\/p>\n<p>The male officer stepped closer.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMa\u2019am, release her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla let me go and pressed a tissue to completely dry eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI nearly collapsed from the shock,\u201d she said. \u201cEspecially in my condition. I don\u2019t understand why she\u2019s behaving this way. I give that girl everything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cStop,\u201d I whispered. \u201cLet go of Noah. You\u2019re hurting him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo not speak to your mother like that,\u201d the male officer snapped.<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca stepped between us.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou are misunderstanding everything! Madison did not abandon those children. She escaped a home where she has been treated like a servant.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla\u2019s mask slipped for half a second.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cStay out of this, Rebecca. You don\u2019t have children. You have no idea what motherhood requires. Madison is simply rebellious.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am not furniture you can drag home to clean your house,\u201d I said. \u201cI\u2019m not going back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My mother\u2019s expression turned dark.<\/p>\n<p>She reached into her purse.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf she wants to accuse me of being a bad mother,\u201d Carla said, \u201cthen perhaps the officers should see what I found hidden beneath her mattress.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She pulled out a small blue spiral notebook.<\/p>\n<p>My journal.<\/p>\n<p>The one place where I had recorded the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Carla held it by the binding with a triumphant smile.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou need to read this,\u201d she told the officers. \u201cThen you\u2019ll understand how dangerous my daughter really is.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The room seemed to sink beneath water.<\/p>\n<p>That notebook contained everything.<\/p>\n<p>The night she pushed me down the stairs because I forgot to buy milk.<\/p>\n<p>The bruises on my arms.<\/p>\n<p>The hours I stayed awake with the babies.<\/p>\n<p>The pantry she kept locked while the younger children cried from hunger.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGive it back,\u201d I said. \u201cThat\u2019s private.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s evidence,\u201d Carla replied.<\/p>\n<p>She handed it to the male officer.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI found it while searching for her this morning. She isn\u2019t escaping household responsibilities. She is mentally disturbed. I am afraid she will harm the younger children.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat exactly is written here?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRead the pages with paper clips.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He opened the notebook.<\/p>\n<p>As he read, his posture changed.<\/p>\n<p>His shoulders stiffened.<\/p>\n<p>His jaw tightened.<\/p>\n<p>When he looked at me again, his expression held disgust.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs this your handwriting?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, but\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDid you write this?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He turned the journal toward me.<\/p>\n<p>The writing looked like mine.<\/p>\n<p>The same uneven loops.<\/p>\n<p>The same slanted letters.<\/p>\n<p>But the words were monstrous.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t listen to Noah cry anymore. I want it to stop. Sometimes I stand beside baby Ethan\u2019s crib and imagine covering his face with a pillow so I can finally sleep.<\/p>\n<p>Nausea struck me so violently that I stumbled into the wall.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI never wrote that,\u201d I gasped. \u201cShe changed it. She tore out the real pages.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe has episodes like this,\u201d Carla cried, clutching her stomach. \u201cI have tried to protect her reputation, but she needs professional treatment. She is a danger to my babies.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I looked closely at the notebook.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\"><\/div>\n<p>The paper near the binding was jagged.<\/p>\n<p>My original pages had been ripped out.<\/p>\n<p>My mother had forged my handwriting and replaced the truth with threats against the children.<\/p>\n<p>She intended to have me confined to a psychiatric facility.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett removed her handcuffs.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMadison Parker, for the safety of the children, you need to turn around and place your hands behind your back. We are taking you for an emergency psychological assessment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca shouted.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou cannot be serious! Look at Carla. She is lying.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cStep aside or you may be arrested for obstruction,\u201d the male officer warned.<\/p>\n<p>Carla stood behind them with a tiny smile that only I could see.<\/p>\n<p>She thought she had won.<\/p>\n<p>Cold metal touched my wrist.<\/p>\n<p>Panic narrowed my vision until all I could see was the notebook and my mother\u2019s face.<\/p>\n<p>Then I remembered something.<\/p>\n<p>A camera flash in my dark bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWait,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett tightened her grip.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo not resist.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not resisting. Check the emails.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Everyone paused.<\/p>\n<p>I turned toward my aunt.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRebecca, get your tablet. Now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla\u2019s smile vanished.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat are you talking about?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI knew you searched my room,\u201d I said, using her first name for the first time in my life. \u201cI knew you picked the lock. Did you think I would leave the only proof under my mattress?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I looked at the officers.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery night after the children fell asleep, I photographed every page I wrote. Then I emailed the pictures to a secure account connected to my aunt\u2019s tablet.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My mother went pale.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s lying! She\u2019s trying to delay you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca ran to the kitchen and returned carrying her tablet.<\/p>\n<p>Her hands shook as she opened the hidden email account.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEverything is here,\u201d she said. \u201cTwo years of photographs, organized by date.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett opened an email from three days earlier.<\/p>\n<p>A clear photograph of an intact journal page appeared.<\/p>\n<p>She read it aloud.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTuesday, 3:00 a.m. Mom locked the pantry again. Noah was crying because his stomach hurt from hunger. I removed the hinge from the garage door to reach the emergency peanut butter. She said if I tell my teacher I\u2019m tired, she will accuse me of using drugs. My wrists still hurt from where she pinned me against the sink.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bennett compared the photographed page with the physical journal.<\/p>\n<p>She studied the pressure of the ink, the torn edges, and stains on the original paper.<\/p>\n<p>Then she held up the page my mother had forged.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis imitation is convincing,\u201d she said. \u201cBut the pressure is different. The original pages show water damage from formula. These replacements are completely dry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla began breathing rapidly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDigital photographs can be altered! She created those.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe email metadata will show when each photograph was taken and sent,\u201d the male officer replied.<\/p>\n<p>The trap my mother created had reversed.<\/p>\n<p>She realized it too.<\/p>\n<p>Her face twisted.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou ungrateful little brat!\u201d she screamed at me. \u201cI feed you. I give you a roof. I needed you in that house!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou use her,\u201d Rebecca said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have babies!\u201d Carla shouted. \u201cSomeone has to take care of them!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett guided Noah behind her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou brought a six-year-old here and hurt him to make him perform for us?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had to get her back,\u201d Carla yelled. \u201cShe is the only one who knows how to manage the children. I knew I should have locked the deadbolts and left them in their cribs instead of bringing Noah!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The room froze.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett looked up slowly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat did you just say?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla blinked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI said Madison should have been home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d the male officer replied. \u201cYou said you locked children inside the house. Who is watching your other five children right now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My mother\u2019s mouth opened.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing came out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re sleeping,\u201d she finally whispered. \u201cThey are safe. I have only been gone for an hour.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett grabbed her radio.<\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-post-pagination-wrap\">\n<div class=\"custom-nav-buttons\">\n<p>\u201cDispatch, send patrol and Child Protective Services to 519 Maple Avenue immediately. Possible child abandonment. Multiple minors, including infants, locked inside without adult supervision.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla lunged toward her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t understand! They\u2019re fine. The stove is off!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The male officer caught her and forced her onto the sofa.<\/p>\n<p>Before anyone could speak again, the heavy engine of a work truck shook the windows.<\/p>\n<p>My father, Dean, climbed out wearing work boots and a hard hat.<\/p>\n<p>He had ignored our lives for years.<\/p>\n<p>Now he walked into the consequences.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat is happening?\u201d he demanded. His eyes went directly to me. \u201cWhat did you do this time, Madison?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI told the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s lying!\u201d Carla shouted. \u201cThey\u2019re trying to take the children.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dean pointed at me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m tired of your drama. Get your bag and get into the truck. You are going home to clean that mess.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He reached for my arm.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Bennett stepped between us.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBack away. Your wife is being investigated for abandonment, child endangerment, fabrication of evidence, and filing a false police report.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dean stopped.<\/p>\n<p>Then the police radio crackled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUnit Seven at Maple Avenue. We forced entry. Five children located inside. Conditions are severe. Trash and animal waste throughout the residence. A nine-month-old infant is in a heavily soiled diaper. Two toddlers were locked in a bedroom from the outside. No adult present. Requesting ambulances and emergency CPS placement.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My father\u2019s face emptied of color.<\/p>\n<p>He turned toward Carla.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou left the babies alone?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had to get Madison!\u201d she screamed. \u201cYou never help. You work, then hide in the shed. Who is supposed to do everything if she leaves?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dean looked toward the officers.<\/p>\n<p>Self-preservation appeared in his eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t know,\u201d he said quickly. \u201cI work twelve-hour shifts. She is the one who stays home. She made Madison do all of it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carla stared at him in disbelief.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\"><\/div>\n<p>\u201cYou knew!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She launched herself from the sofa and scratched his face before the officer pulled her down and cuffed her.<\/p>\n<p>The clicking of the handcuffs sounded like the first lock in my life finally opening.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou are under arrest for child abandonment and endangerment,\u201d the officer said.<\/p>\n<p>As they led her outside, she twisted toward me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou destroyed this family! Your brothers and sisters will hate you!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The patrol car door closed on her screams.<\/p>\n<p>Dean remained on the porch, answering questions and desperately separating himself from the disaster he had ignored.<\/p>\n<p>I looked at Noah, crying against Rebecca.<\/p>\n<p>My hands were no longer shaking.<\/p>\n<p>The fight was over.<\/p>\n<p>But the damage remained.<\/p>\n<p>The months afterward were filled with social workers, medical evaluations, court hearings, and waiting rooms.<\/p>\n<p>The condition of our house, the photographs of my journal, the forged entries, and the testimony of the children created a case even my mother\u2019s attorney could not erase.<\/p>\n<p>Carla was denied bail. She was ordered to undergo psychiatric treatment and later received a prison sentence for child abandonment, abuse, and falsifying evidence.<\/p>\n<p>Dean attempted to obtain custody, mostly because he did not want to pay support. But my teachers testified that I had fallen asleep in class for years. Grocery store employees remembered seeing me buy diapers and formula late at night. Neighbors described hearing children crying while my parents stayed locked away.<\/p>\n<p>The judge severely restricted his parental rights.<\/p>\n<p>I was formally placed in Rebecca\u2019s custody.<\/p>\n<p>My first night at her house was almost frightening because of the silence.<\/p>\n<p>I lay beneath clean sheets that smelled of lavender, staring at the ceiling and waiting for a baby to cry.<\/p>\n<p>No cry came.<\/p>\n<p>I slept for fourteen hours.<\/p>\n<p>When I woke, no one demanded laundry or bottles. There was only a plate of scrambled eggs on the table and the quiet sound of morning news.<\/p>\n<p>It felt unfamiliar.<\/p>\n<p>It felt safe.<\/p>\n<p>I returned to school.<\/p>\n<p>I began passing geometry.<\/p>\n<p>I joined the library club.<\/p>\n<p>I discovered that I laughed loudly when I was not afraid of waking someone.<\/p>\n<p>Little by little, I began meeting the girl I might have been if I had been allowed to have a childhood.<\/p>\n<p>But I missed my brothers and sisters constantly.<\/p>\n<p>They were placed in temporary foster homes while social services searched for safer long-term arrangements.<\/p>\n<p>Visiting Noah, Ethan, and the others in supervised rooms was almost unbearable.<\/p>\n<p>I had not left because I did not love them.<\/p>\n<p>I left because remaining in that house would have destroyed me.<\/p>\n<p>Therapy helped me understand something no one had ever taught me.<\/p>\n<p>I was their sister.<\/p>\n<p>I had never been their mother.<\/p>\n<p>Their survival should never have rested entirely on my shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>Two months after the arrest, my mother gave birth while in state custody.<\/p>\n<p>The baby was a girl named Grace.<\/p>\n<p>When I saw her through the nursery window, I felt grief for everything she had already lost.<\/p>\n<p>But I also felt relief.<\/p>\n<p>She would never grow up believing her purpose was to raise everyone who came after her.<\/p>\n<p>The cycle had finally broken.<\/p>\n<p>On my seventeenth birthday, Rebecca held a small celebration in her kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>There was a crooked chocolate cake and two friends from the library club.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing more.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMake a wish, Madison,\u201d Rebecca said.<\/p>\n<p>I looked at the candles.<\/p>\n<p>I did not wish for wealth.<\/p>\n<p>I did not wish for a car.<\/p>\n<p>I did not even wish that the past would disappear.<\/p>\n<p>I wished that I would always remember the courage it took to walk out of my mother\u2019s house.<\/p>\n<p>And that I would never again forget that my life belonged to me.<\/p>\n<p>I blew out the candles.<\/p>\n<p>For the first time, the darkness that followed felt peaceful.<\/p>\n<p>I am now working with Rebecca and the social workers assigned to my siblings.<\/p>\n<p>When I turn eighteen, we plan to request joint legal guardianship where appropriate, so that my brothers and sisters can gradually become part of our home.<\/p>\n<p>But this time, I will not bring them home as an exhausted child forced to become their mother.<\/p>\n<p>I will welcome them as what I was always supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p>Their sister.<\/p>\n<div class=\"custom-post-pagination-wrap\">\n<div class=\"custom-nav-buttons\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When the pounding started, I knew my mother would never let me leave without turning it into a war. 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